Dining Table

I love that each room of my house claims a special purpose.

Often, I will pour a glass of wine and go into the sitting room to take in the quiet and the perspective that I find there. Other rooms are more functional, like the guest bedroom, which is used when my sweet Jason snores. Or, the office to conduct my family business, write this blog, print pictures, etc. Then, there is the dining room. For years, the dining room and its table and chairs have been used, well, for dining or "buffeting"(no, it's not a word, but it should be).

I have hosted intimate dinners for two and parties for 40+ using that room as a usual suspect. But, lately, it has been transformed into something much different by my little Emerson's imagination and her constant drive to laugh and play.

We were all taking it easy last Saturday, and I think Emerson was a bit restless. At one point, I couldn't see where she was, and I couldn't hear her either, which always means one of two things: one, she is hiding and knows to be still and quiet until I find her; or two, she is doing something she knows she shouldn't and is being still and quiet until I find her. In this case she was hiding, under the dining table.

She loves this "game", and I adore it as well because, once found, she becomes a twinkly-eyed, toddler full of smiles and giggles. Most importantly, she becomes the master of her "fort" in which I am a mere pawn.

Where Emerson can squeeze between chairs and table legs, I can not, so I start by making the game more fair by pulling the chairs back from the table. Then the chase around, under, and between the chairs and table begin, lasting for 15 or 20 minutes and always ending with my laying under the table with her on top of me, both of us in a state of panting and laughter. She is always the first to get up, running away to find her next adventure, and I usually follow her.

This day was different. This day, she left while I remained on the floor under the dining room table, looking up at the construction of it. I began to recall the many times I have detached and replaced the table's leaves. I remembered the food and conversations that this table has held. I smiled thinking of all of the celebrations, and even the many moves this table has made with me. It has certainly served its purpose.

But I couldn't help but think that after nearly ten years of sturdy and predictable work, the best purpose it had served was providing my daughter and me a fort under which we could simply play. No table clothes, or centerpieces, no buffets, or china. Just Emerson and me, still in our pjs at 1:00 in the afternoon, giggling together in our fort like the entire world was ours. And it was.